Dear Shaved-Head Women: You Don’t Really Care About Women’s Rights
How modern feminism destroyed itself over its abortion mono-focus.
In the aftermath of Trump’s landslide, women across TikTok are shaving their heads and/or wearing blue bracelets to fight the so-called “patriarchy.” Here’s a heartfelt letter to you all:
Dear Women Who Shaved Off Your Hair After Trump’s Election:
You say you are for women’s rights. Are you really?
My question to you is: Where the hell have you been?
Where were you when the radical trans movement funded by white male billionaires mandated that we changed the definition of “woman” from a sex-based one to a gender stereotype?
Where were you when being a woman was newly redefined, not by biology, but about long hair, excessive make-up, low-cut dresses, effete mannerisms, high-pitched sexpot voices, porn star names, big boobs, and glam selfies?
(By the way, your shaved head now officially makes you “non-binary.” Enjoy your internalized misogyny.)
Where were you when drag queens took center stage in mocking and degrading women with their blackface version of femininity, called ladyface?
Where were you when women were sexually assaulted in women’s shelters and prisons by “transwomen”?
Where were you when women athletes had their jaws broken or lost their trophies to biological males in women’s sports?
Where were you when your lesbian sisters were gaslit and driven underground from harassment by “women with shenises” who claimed that lesbians were being transphobic because they only wanted to date biological women?
Where were you when the term “biological woman” was turned into a slur? When the term “breastfeeding” was banned and replaced with “chestfeeding”? When “pregnant women” turned into “pregnant people”? When “menstrual products” became “period products”?
Where were you when radical feminist Gallus Mag of GenderTrender was permanently banned from WordPress.com for “deadnaming” a racist MTF trans activist with a history of suing women beauty clinic workers for refusing to give him (yes, him) a bikini wax?
Where were you when our tomboys and smart girls were told they weren’t really girls, because they didn’t feel comfortable with the Cosmopolitan/Instagram beauty influencer vision of fake womanhood?
Where were you when girls who had suffered sexual abuse as a child were told their only problem was that they were really a boy? Where were you when these girls had double mastectomies before the age of 18?
That’s right. You were busy virtue signaling with your pronouns like the good handmaidens you are.
Oh, but Trump’s a misogynist, you say.
Let’s go there. You talk about the rape allegations against Trump.
Where were you when multiple women over the years accused Bill Clinton of rape and intimidation? Where were you when multiple women accused Joe Biden of sexual misconduct?
Where were you when Tara Reade desperately tried to get her story of Joe Biden’s rape out to the press? Where were you when Reade was threatened with prison and death threats, and slandered as a Russian agent? Where were you when Reade became so terrified of retribution by the Biden administration, she took the offer of a safe haven from Russia before returning to the US to file suit against Biden?
Or do you only believe all women who accuse Trump, but not Biden, Clinton, or other male Democrats?
Don’t you dare lecture Trump voters for voting for a “rapist.” If you voted for Joe Biden, you also voted for an alleged rapist. Get off your high horse.
Let’s continue.
Where were you when Iranian women were fighting for their right to not cover their heads? When Afghanistan women were forbidden by the Taliban to even talk to one another?
Where were you when women in the Middle East were stoned to death after they were the victims of rape?
Where have you been in the years that Hindustani (Indian) women activists were fighting for the rights of girls to be educated in rural communities? Where were you when they fought to have separate bathroom facilities in school, since so many girls were not going to school over shame of having to manage their periods around boys in not-so-private spaces?
Oh, that’s right, you were here in the U.S., advocating for girls to lose their right to privacy in bathrooms and locker rooms.
Do you think abortion and electing the first U.S. woman president are the only “feminist” issues?
Do you think voting for a clearly incompetent and inarticulate woman, Kamala Harris, who was placed into her position of power, is actually going to help women in the long run?
Do you think making sexy Instagram videos of yourself doing downward facing dog in a bikini on the beach “empowers” you?
You think you are feminists, that you are fighting the patriarchy, but you are not feminists. And you are enabling the patriarchy.
The “patriarchy,” if we define it as a loose collection of lower energies that want to keep women bound to toxic gender roles, wants “woman” to be defined as a sex object.
The trans definition of “woman” is entirely patriarchal, as it basically redefines womanhood from biological realities to sex object fantasies.
And you all enabled this, the minute you took to Instagram and decided it was a better use of your time to promote fashion, make-up, and sexy yoga videos made by and for women, as opposed to anything more intelligent or enlightening.
YOU created the New Patriarchy.
And abortion? It just enables patriarchy, because abortion enables men treating women like whore trash, using you for sex, and giving all involved an “easy out” from the consequences. No dating anymore, just a one-date rule, and you’re lucky if you get a free drink out of it. Abortion also means men don’t have to worry about consequences if they date rape you. That’s the Brave New Anti-Woman World that has been created thanks to abortion on demand. Abortion helps the patriarchy more than it hurts it.
Abortion is not the major issue facing young women today. Today, across America, you can go live in many states where abortion is not only a right, but it’s been baked into the state constitution whereby the legislators can’t even ban late-term abortions. Maryland just passed one of these constitutional amendments. If abortion matters that much to you, go move to one of these states. Can’t afford it? Start a GoFundMe. I’m sure someone will oblige you.
The number one major issue young women in America are facing today is that women and girls are increasingly sexualized, pressured to be sexy, pressured to have sex, and ultimately pressured to need abortions.
The second major issue facing young women is that they are losing their rights to privacy and safety while being replaced with biological males who claim to be female based on the gross anti-woman sexpot stereotypes that feminists used to fight against.
Young women hate the new vision of women so much, they have decided to hate on women and just join the boys’ club, which is why so many young women are identifying as transmale. They weren’t taught by their mothers that you don’t need to be a plastic surgery nightmare to be a real woman in the 21st century.
No, moms of America, you did the opposite.
YOU set up a world in which shitty images of women are being put forward as the ideal, most of which YOU created. The Instagram beauty influencer. The female “yoga guru” who cares more about her “yoga butt” and getting likes from her masturbating male fans than about actually teaching true spirituality. The “Swifties” who go crazy over an idol whose main point of “empowerment” is giving a big middle finger to an ex-boyfriend. The drag queens you applaud who actually hate women and do drag because it’s a form of mockery of gross female stereotypes.
Feminism in America is a joke.
Bottom line: If you are OK with men taking over women’s sports, with women being raped in women’s shelters and prisons in the name of “inclusivity,” with the idea of “motherhood” entirely erased to appease the trans patriarchy...you are not a feminist.
What you are is a sex rights activist, who wants the right to have an abortion with no restrictions. But don’t ever confuse that with being a women’s rights activist. Because, according to the Brave New World you created, women aren’t the only “pregnant people” who get abortions now, “men” get them too.
And this is precisely why you lost.
Another great piece Stephanie.
You're correct on all counts, but especially this one:
"You think you are feminists, that you are fighting the patriarchy, but you are not feminists. And you are enabling the patriarchy."
I would say, where selling out women is concerned, they are the new patriarchy. It's been interesting to watch all you laid out, but this latest mania as well, where all these "feminist" SJWs are "protesting" the Trump patriarchy - that supposedly objectifies them and degrades them to simple sexual receptacles - by weaponizing their bodies - distilling themselves down to an opportunity for sex - that is being withheld.
The contradiction being sold and bought would be entertaining to watch, if it weren't so pitifully sad.
The one thing this hysterical "protest" will do, is make these unhinged and radicalized women much easier for men to identify and avoid. For the majority of men out here, who're not betas, tampon tim walz cucks, or high estrogen soy fed castrati, these women and their ilk are pretty much forever off the list.
That's not a tit for tat gender war thing, but a matter of avoiding the mentally compromised (I'm being gracious here, many think they've literally driven themselves insane) for any relationship interaction. While there are those who can wake/recover form this manical brainwashing (such as yourself) most men see no sense in even considering these types, much less waiting around to see if they come back to an emotional and mental equilibrium.
The only problem with this - for men looking for a normal, sane, healthy woman - is they will become extremely high demand.
All the downside of this and other crazed radicalism, is long term and on the side of these new Slick Domed Warriors (SDWs).
In the larger scheme, society will also feel the pinch, with declining birth rates and nuclear families, that are the bedrock of any healthy society and culture.
Being a woman facing retirement soon, I know how hard I worked to gain respect in the "man's world." What I experienced from women in that same world was shocking: back-stabbing, gossip and tearing each other down. I looked around me and thought: "women are just stupid." We can't see that teaming up in a "club" would help us. We can't see that there is a "boy's club" because it BENEFITS them to band together and work as a club. Women scratch and claw each other to get ahead. Women wear provocative clothes to get ahead. Women undermine other women to get ahead. Again, women have a lot to learn.